The Different Types Of Sexting

Just like there are many different positions to have sex in, there are many different types of sexting/dirty talk. We are going to be explaining a few of them below in order to further educate you so that your sexting game is always on point. Plus, if you get stuck, it will definitely help to keep this list handy. Sometimes it can be hard to get the sexting going or it can be rough knowing how to respond to something that your sexting buddy says, so we hope that this list will be able to ease your mind just a tad bit and get those creative juices flowing. We are going to keep the categories quite broad, that way they can be used in any sexting situation; whether you’re sexting on the go or sexting from your couch, find solace in the fact that you have this long-coveted information at your fingertips, (a little bit of dramatic flair never hurt anybody and always spruces up that storytelling *ahem ahem*). 

Dominate

Dominate the conversation and demand exactly what you want from your sexting guy/gal. You are in control of the narrative: if you want them down on their knees, in between your thighs or pressed up against a wall, sext that shit to your sexting S.O. Confidence is key when it comes to this; don’t back away from saying something just because it seems like it might be a bit too much. Let yourself have fun – you are in the driver’s seat, so your imagination is the limit. (Of course, don’t forget to make sure to halt if your partner tells you they are becoming uncomfortable with the way the conversation is going. Consent is key!)

Be Submissive

Be submissive but still help to carry the steamy conversation by asking your sexy other half questions about what they want you to do to them. You can even ask them to explain exactly what they are doing to you. This is especially great for someone who isn’t quite comfortable with the whole sexting situation yet, or someone who really wants to lay back and let someone get them off.

Some examples of broad questions you can always go to: What do you want me to do to you? What do you want to do to me? Tell me how it feels when you touch yourself. What do you want me to do to myself right now? Tell me your fantasy.
 

Reminisce

If you happen to have a sexting partner with who you also get down and dirty in person, re-living specific sexy times you two have had together can be the biggest turn-on. Talk about it in detail. Your stomach is sure to flip when you close your eyes, picture it and talk about it all at once while….you know……;)

Add Visuals

If you want to be bold and hold more than a conversation with those hands of yours, (get it?) then it is time to up your game with some visuals. Whether those visuals are still or moving is completely up to your discretion. Just make sure that you are only taking this step with someone whom you trust, and even then, be prepared for those suckers to pop up at any point in time. Luckily, we are moving past the slut-shaming days and back/forward into the hippie/free the nipple movement days. With that being said, sending visuals of oneself can definitely be the most arousing route to go down. It will definitely turn the heat up on any conversation instantly. You can wear a nice little tease of an outfit or go completely nude. You can be touching yourself or simply strutting your stuff. The choice is yours. Once again, just have confidence in that body of yours and let it speak sex. The best part? If you don’t know what to say, a picture is always worth a thousand words. 
Want More? Read Here’s How Not To Sext!