Sexting: The Dos and Don’ts

Sexting can be a great way to liven up a your sex life and can ultimately bring you closer together with the person you are interested in. It is fun to have playful banter throughout the day and to know that someone is thinking of you. This way, even when you are apart, you can be connected in spirit and end up having fun together!


Ask for Permission

Before you get started with sexting, ask the other person’s permission to sext so you know that this is something they want to do. If you are both on the same page, this is the best way to start into something like this that can take your sex life to a whole new level. The worst thing you could do would be to start sexting someone who is not into it!


Be Playful and Fun

Sexting is supposed to be fun. Use your imagination to send messages that are playful and fun. There is simply no time to be sad or stressed in this game! Find the joy and then send it off to your partner through some lively sexts. You will have fun while at the same time build some strong connections. 


Let it Lead to More

Speaking of strong connections, sexting is a great way to build connections. Sexting is a great way to communicate with your partner, and sometimes you can say things over sexting that you are too shy to say in person. When you get your imagination flowing, you will be able to build a bond that you haven’t experienced before. And that can lead to more of a positive experience both in and out of the bedroom. 


Don’t Be Too Graphic

Even if you really know the person, don’t be too graphic in your communication via sexting. First, you never want something you send to get into the wrong hands, and secondly, you want to build a positive, strong bond that is not necessarily built on vulgarities. 


Don’t Let it Substitute for Real Communication

Sexting is fun and a great way to build communication with someone you are attracted to. But don’t get so far into sexting that you forget that you need real communication to make your bond stay true. Sexting is the icing on the cake, but make sure you bake the cake in the first place by talking to your partner and building something real together. You’ll be glad you did.


Check Out A Sexting Site

You might not have anyone special to try sexting with, but that doesn’t mean you can’t sext. There are tons of sexting websites out there just waiting for you to enter them. And if all you are looking for is nudes, there are sites that offer that as well!


If you follow the do’s and don’ts of sexting, you will enjoy some fun with your partner and build a new level of communication and fun together. This will lead to more and better intimacy as well, which is a plus for anyone looking to try this!