Role-playing And Sexting
Sexting hasn’t been around long enough for everyone to feel comfortable with it. Heck, sex has been around forever and it still makes people sweat. Sexting, being so new, makes a lot of people nervous. They aren’t sure what to say or how well it’ll be received. It’s challenging to have your sexual thoughts delivered to another person in black and white. The fear that the recipient will show it to their friends or think your verbiage was corny is something that all sexters face at the beginning. But there are things you can do to put your fear to the side and just relish in all the sexting goodness. Also, if you don’t want your sexts to be held onto forever, you can always try using encrypted sexting sites. Those apps will make your messages disappear before they can be saved. And one more thing…
Role-playing is one of the best ways to quell sexual fears. It’s easier to let loose when you are playing a character. If something comes across as unsavory, you always have that character to blame it on. It’s one of the biggest reasons why role-playing in sex is so popular. It should come as no surprise that it’s since been integrated into sexting. Use characters to release your inner freak. Use it to give you something to talk about. Not sure which character is best suited for you while sexting? We’ve come up with plenty to choose from. Read on to find the perfect role-play scene to bring into your sexting chats.
Boss and Employee
This is a staple role-play scenario that people love because it’s very sexy and relatable. Take a moment to decide who is the bossier between you and the person you are sexting. That person becomes the boss and the other is either the employee or secretary. Pretend that you are spending a late night working together at the office and things get very heated by the copy machine. The sexual tension is rising in this forbidden friendship. What are you going to do next?
Sexting examples to get things started:
- “I need you to come into my office. You need to show me why I shouldn’t fire you on the spot.”
- “It makes me hard when you wear those short skirts at the reception desk”
- “Bend over the copy machine.”
Doctor and Patient
Doctors have access to their patient’s bodies. You’d never flirt with your doctor in real life, but role-playing is all about fantasy. One person takes on the role as the sexual doctor, and the other is the patient. Maybe the patient came to see the doctor because they can’t stop their overwhelming feelings of horniness.
Sexting examples to get things started:
- “Doctor, I can’t stop fantasizing about sex. What can you do to help me?”
- “Oh sorry, I got the operating table all wet.”
- “As a doctor, I know exactly what you need.”
Criminal and Cop
Does someone need to be taken to the station – the sexting station? Bring that bad criminal attitude into your world of sexting by texting about a situation in which someone gets arrested. While they are being put into handcuffs, they can’t help but feel a little turned on. How naughty can you get with your hands behind your back?
Sexting examples to get things started:
- “Oh Ms. Officer, I’ve been so bad. What can I do to show you I’m good?”
- “Hands behind your back, and bend over so I can cuff you!”
- “Mr. Officer, can you keep me company in the back of this cop car?”
Plane Passengers
Do you dream of being part of the mile-high club? Doing it on a plane is something that’s usually seen on a bucket list. Live out that fantasy via text by sending naughty messages about it. You can pretend that you are both passengers aboard a steamy flight, or one of you can play the captain/flight attendant. There are more spots than just the plane bathroom where you could boink. Maybe it starts with two passengers sitting next to each other, teasing and testing one another before they even get up from the seats.
Sexting examples to get things started:
- “My name is (your name), glad to be sitting next to such a sexy woman.”
- “As your flight attendant, I think you should know the real snacks are located in the back of the plane.”
- “I wanted to come up here to see the cockpit.”
Jungle Explorers
Got a bit of a wild instinct? Explore your jungle side by pretending that you are lost in the jungle. Sweating, naked, and surrounded by nature you are tempted to do what comes naturally. As the sounds of the wilderness and animals surround you and you are perspiring from the jungle climate, you begin to seek relief. Describe how rough you’d get doing the nasty on the dirt floor of the jungle!
Sexting examples to get things started:
- “I want to drink the sweat running down your body.”
- “Look, a river. Should we clean ourselves off… while getting dirtier?”
- “I want to push you up against that tree.”
Did any of those characters seem suitable for your sexting chats? Dive into the character as much as possible. It will help you get over your fears of sexting and additionally allow for more imagination to guide your chat. Sexting is founded on creativity and the ability to describe a sex situation in delicious detail. Characters give you more to work with, more to describe, and more to fantasize about.
If you are the type of sexter who enjoys sending and receiving nudes while texting naughty messages, it might be worthwhile to dress up in the costume of the character. Playing a sexy doctor? Grab a lab coat from the costume store. Costuming will help you get into character as you sext and will also make your nudes more creative. When both sexting participants dress up as their role-playing characters and send nudes during the interaction, it elevates the sexting experience and makes the fantasy more real.