Top Kinks To Talk About While Sexting

Everyone has a preference of what they’re turned on by sexually. This is referred to as a kink, fetish, or fantasy and it’s a great thing to lean on when you don’t know what to talk about while sexting. Before diving into one of these topics with someone you meet on a sexting site, it’s best to ask the person if they are also turned on by these topics. If they give you the green light, a kink provides a ton of hot, fresh material that goes beyond just sending and receiving nudes. The best sexting exchanges involve dirty talk, nudes, perhaps videos, and always fantasies. So, let’s get into some of the most common sexual kinks that you can talk about with a person you’ve met on a sexting app.

Foot Fetish: 

Getting sexually turned on by feet is a very common fetish. There are studies that suggest that looking at feet triggers sexual arousal in some people. You can describe your own feet or ask your sexting partner to describe theirs. You can also put feet in sexual scenarios and incorporate foot pictures or nudes that include feet into your conversation.

BDSM:

Power dynamics are always a lot of fun to test out through sexting. You can roleplay being the dominant or submissive one, either stating demands or asking what you should do as a sub. Get creative with it. For instance, you can roleplay characters who fit into dominant and submissive roles in society – such as a boss and employee.

Voyeurism: 

There’s something very sexy about the possibility of getting caught. That’s why people are into voyeurism or exhibitionism. The difference between the two is that voyeurism is watching someone else while exhibitionism is the enjoyment of being watched. Characters can come into play for this fetish similarly to the way they would for a BDSM fantasy. For instance, what is a scenario in which you might get caught having sex or masturbating? This is a great setup for a steamy sexting session.

Pegging: 

This is a very common fantasy among straight men who aren’t normally stimulated. Maybe they’ve never experienced anyone penetrating them anally and they want to use sexting as a way to explore that avenue. This is a fun sexting experiment for a heterosexual sexting pair because it gives them each a chance to wear the other’s shoes.

If any of these kinks turn you on, this should give you a great place to start with your next match on a sexting site. The beauty of fantasy is that it’s a world completely within your control. Even if you’d never try these things with a fuckbuddy in real life, you can expand upon the ideas to create a hot taboo world of your own making. Sexting is also a fantastic outlet for testing these fantasies out in a way that feels safe and comfortable. Give one of these a whirl next time you meet someone on a sexting website.