Should You Be Sexting The Same Person Or Someone New?

Phones have completely changed the game for our sex lives, and we think it’s for the better. Sexting is a part of everyday life almost as much as regular sex, maybe even more given the state of the world in the last few years. It’s one of the hottest and safest ways to isolate while having sex. It’s also not going to give you any STIs and it’s super easy and fun. You have likely already started sexting someone or multiple partners. Maybe you’ve got one guy or gal who really turns you on and they are the only person who you sext. Are you now asking yourself if you should be looking for new or additional people to send naughty texts to? Here are some things to consider when you are thinking about getting more sexting partners:

The beauty in sexing the same person over and over again is that you develop a rapport with that person and feel that you can trust them. Sexting often involves sending nudes and very revealing messages which can be screenshotted and shared if you aren’t careful. Finding a stranger or beginning with someone new might not be in your best interest because it means either taking a risk or spending time building trust with someone you’ve never met before.

Sexting the same person often is like having the same type of sex all the time. It can get pretty boring and you start to lose that spark you initially had. This is just human nature and not necessarily a bad thing. But it might inspire you to start browsing sexting sites or paying for nudes from strangers on the web. The thrill of finding someone new to sext can make the sexting itself that much more exciting which is why you might consider finding new people to sext with.

When you’ve been sexting someone for a while, you get a feel for their kinks and they get a feel for yours. You two form a rhythm and can tell what is going to turn the other person on. With new people, you have to explain what kinky stuff you are into. The way around this is to visit sexting sites that appeal to things you like or have categories. There are surely sexting sites for BDSM fantasies and others that might help you avoid this con altogether.

If you are visiting a trusted sexting platform, then you know that most of your worries are unnecessary. Most sexters on these sites value privacy and anonymity. You can change your name for them if you want and have a ton of one-and-done sessions with strangers. That way, you get all the excitement with none of the risk which can be really fun.