How To Get Girls To Sext You

Whether you’re browsing sexting sites, DMing strangers through social media channels, or trying to get a friend to sext, one thing is certain: You are horny. When you’re horny, you aren’t always thinking with your brain. You’re thinking with your crotch. While this might make you desperate to find someone to sext fast, we invite you to slow down and take a breather. This eager horny energy is not the best way to get a girl to sext. you. Even if you think you’re being chill, she’ll be able to sense your desperation and read it as creepiness. That’s why you’ve got to be a little bit more suave and cool when you’re trying to get a girl to sext you.

Our first piece of advice would be to check out a sexting website, a model’s social media page, or a site where you can purchase nude pictures and raunchy videos. These are the fastest routes to sexting because these women are expecting you to ask for it. When picking a model to direct message, make sure she’s involved in porn or an erotic model – that should go without saying. Because these women are used to getting these requests or being paid for their content, they are less likely to shut you down than the women you know or are friends with. Of course, that’s the forbidden fruit that we all want. And we have good news, you can get it.

So how do you get a girl who you already know to sext you? This is simple: you have to dance the line between coy and aloof. You have to also allude to what you want without actually saying it. Say, for instance, a hot friend of yours post a picture in a bikini. You can message her about that photo and tell her it’s turning you on. This follows the same philosophy as messaging a girl on a sexting website. She uploaded a hot photo to get some attention. She’ll let you know immediately if you’re attention is unwanted (and buddy, consent is everything so you better listen). But, she might be totally into it!

If it seems like she’s down, you can try asking her if she wants to move from messaging to texting. This will signal to her that you want to change the tone of the conversation, potentially to something more private than social media. Then, you can play the shy guy card and tell her you want to try something with her, but you’re afraid to ask because you’ve never done it before. Let her feel like she’s in control. She might even suggest sexting on her own without you even asking!

If she seems down but doesn’t make the first move, you do need to ask the question, “do you want to sext?” This is how you keep yourself out of trouble and give her the agency to feel excited about what’s about to take place. When she’s feeling secure and happy, she’s more likely to get really into it. You can talk about exchanging nudes or what you’d do to her if you were in the room with her right now! Ask questions, keep it saucy.

Never, under any circumstances, ever send an unsolicited nude photo of your crotch to get things started. Have you ever seen an unwarranted picture of a guy’s junk before? It’s scary whether you’re a straight man or not. This rarely (we’d dare to say never) works out well and it doesn’t allow for consent. Don’t make this dumb mistake!