How Sexting Can Improve Your Sex Life

This may not come as a surprise, but we are extremely pro sexting! And it can benefit your sex life beyond the chat or messages themselves! You might not believe us, but sexting is way more than just words or a nudes exchange. Even if you are sexting someone you’ve just met through a sexting site, or they’re you’re significant other, sexting can help you improve your sex life in so many ways! Read on to find out why using sex chats and typing out the dirty kinks or fantasies you have can improve the way you move and enjoy yourself in the bedroom too!

You learn to be more comfortable talking about sex: Using a sex chat or sexting platform means that you feel safe and are in good company with others who are talking about sex. When you feel safe exploring your own sexuality, it makes the idea of sex feel less taboo and scary to you. The more comfortable you are when talking about sex, especially with strangers on sexting sites, the more comfortable you are going to be with the real thing. You will have developed a language for certain sex acts, feel more comfortable voicing them, and have overall better sex.

You learn what turns you on: Sexting offers so many avenues for kinks to take shape. When you enter a sex chatroom or sexting site with rooms for instance, you have the option to dive into a ton of different fantasies with different people. The safety that sexting provides allows you to explore those fantasies to the point of deciding which ones are right for you. You might even learn that something you’ve never even thought of turns you on! This lets you fully inhabit your sexual kinks in the bedroom too, and gives you the language to know exactly what to ask of your sexual partner.

Takes the pressure off: There’s so much pressure these days to perform like a sex acrobat when you’re in the bedroom with someone. But that’s not what real-life sex is. Sure, on adult sites and in porn, we see a lot of stuff, but it’s important to remember that all of those things are deeply produced and staged. Hate to burst that bubble! Still, there’s pressure in real life. In sexting and staged nudes, you can be a sex champion if you want to be with the body of your dreams! You can write yourself as a sex master. This works in real life because it serves as affirmation, giving you the confidence to ease performance anxiety when you are in the moment.

Sexting is the perfect outlet to explore your sexual identity in a way that feels comfortable. You get the beauty of time to pose your perfect picture, use the anonymity of a screen, or talk the way you wish that you could in bed! All of this is really just a practice in sexual confidence, which is all you need to be a sex superstar. Use sexting as a form of practice for the real deal!