How To Initiate Sexting
You’re home alone. It’s getting late and you are feeling frisky. You could easily bust out the lotion and turn on some of your favorite porn, but it’s getting monotonous at this point. Didn’t you wank to that video earlier today anyway? Luckily there’s a cure for your boredom and it’s sexting. Whether you find a chick to sext on a site, app, or you’re already seeing her in real life, you want to start a sexting session with that babe. Maybe you are dying to have some of her nudes or perhaps her dirty talk is on point. The reason doesn’t matter. You want to sext and we are going to help you out.
Yeah yeah, you could always just ask to have phone sex. But that’s kind of awkward. What are you going to say… Let’s phone sex! It doesn’t quite roll off the tongue or your texting fingers. With every girl, even if you met her on a sexting website, you are going to need to play it smart. If you were having regular sex, you wouldn’t just plunge in, would you? You’d probably get some consent and start nibbling on her earlobe. We don’t know what your personal style is, but we’re going to assume you aren’t walking into the room, groin first, and pouncing. There’s a little bit of prep involved.
The same goes for sexting. How you initiate the nudes exchange is going to determine the whole vibe. More importantly, it will probably dictate whether or not it ever happens again with this lady friend of yours. If you give her a lame sexting session, why would she ever send you a nude again? Don’t start off on the wrong foot when there is so much naked content at stake.
There is one surefire way to blow it: The Unsocilicted Dick Pick. Take it from a couple of guys who used to send a few in their day… chicks don’t like that. They need a little warning before staring your junk in the face, even if it’s through a phone screen. So don’t do it. Just don’t send that unsolicited nude her way. Bring up sexting in another way that’s less shocking and more likely to get her dripping wet and begging to see that pound of flesh you’ve got hanging between your legs.
What You Could Say:
Try saying something a little flirty. Maybe try playing it rated R before hitting her hardcore with the XXX texts. By that we mean to be a little bit slick and under the radar. Everything that a dick pick is not. You first want to make sure that your girl is even in the mood for nudes. It’ll suck if she’s not, but think about it this way… The content you get is going to be so much hotter if your sexting friend is turned on and a very willing participant. You can’t half-ass sexting. That’s just sloppy. Here are some phrases that are flirty but don’t come off too strong. And yes, they will ultimately lead to you getting that sweet photo of your girls nude kitty through the phone.
“I can’t stop thinking about you”
This might hinge on the romantic side but it’s a good starting point for someone in a relationship looking to initiate sexting. It shows that you care about the person but it’s coated in sexual innuendo. Usually, when we see a text like that, we get horny. It just happens that way. If you want to put your girlfriend in a horny mood, send her this text. You’ll be getting a sexy lingerie pic followed by true nudes in no time.
“You were so hot in my dream last night”
This is a casual but fun way to start off any texting chat. It implies several important things: That this girl turns you on, that you imagine having sex, and that she was in your dreams. Women love to hear that. It practically gets them dripping… in flattery. It’s a great compliment and shows that you were thinking about her body.
“There’s so much I want to do to your body”
Here’s a more overt way to start off your sexting exchange. It’s a really solid first sext. There’s less mystery to it, but it gets you in the sexting gate right away with no room for an alternate interpretation. If your girl is down to start sexting, she’ll respond to this with a dirtier sext than this. It’s that simple.
“Thinking about you wearing that red dress right now… and taking it off”
If you haven’t met this lady in person yet but have seen photos on an online profile, hookup website, or app, you can pull an outfit from one of her hottest photos and talk about it. Women work hard at picking out good photos and working on their appearance. Showing a little appreciation will go a long way, and most likely get you a few nudes to save for your naked photo library.
Final Thoughts
Sexting is fun, but it needs to be initiated the right way. How you start off the sexting will set the tone for the rest of the exchange. We’ve given you tons of ways to initiate that sexting conversation, so what are you waiting for? Send your chick one of these lines and see what happens. One of them is bound to work. Remember, if she isn’t in the mood, try again later. You don’t want to sext a girl who doesn’t want to sext you. That’s just lame.